Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Lesson 3 - The Chosen People


Share with the rest of the class in a paragraph about a time when you were chosen or not chosen for something. This could be a position in school, a spot on a particular sports team, a job, club officer, anything related to being chosen or not. How did it make you feel? Why do you think you were chosen or not?

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Chapter 5: Cain and Abel Tested

[This chapter is based on Genesis 4:1-15]

Cain and Abel, the sons of Adam, differed widely in character. Abel had a spirit of loyalty to God; he saw justice and mercy in the Creator's dealings with the fallen race, and gratefully accepted the hope of redemption. But Cain cherished feelings of rebellion, and murmured against God because of the curse pronounced upon the earth and upon the human race for Adam's sin. He permitted his mind to run in the same channel that led to Satan's fall--indulging the desire for self-exaltation and questioning the divine justice and authority.

These brothers were tested, as Adam had been tested before them, to prove whether they would believe and obey the word of God. They were acquainted with the provision made for the salvation of man, and understood the system of offerings which God had ordained. They knew that in these offerings they were to express faith in the Saviour whom the offerings typified, and at the same time to acknowledge their total dependence on Him for pardon; and they knew that by thus conforming to the divine plan for their redemption, they were giving proof of their obedience to the will of God. Without the shedding of blood there could be no remission of sin; and they were to show their faith in the blood of Christ as the promised atonement by offering the firstlings of the flock in sacrifice. Besides this, the first fruits of the earth were to be presented before the Lord as a thank offering.

The two brothers erected their altars alike, and each brought an offering. Abel presented a sacrifice from the flock, in accordance with the Lord's directions. "And the Lord had respect unto Abel and to his offering." Fire flashed from heaven and consumed the sacrifice. But Cain, disregarding the Lord's direct and explicit command, presented only an offering of fruit. There was no token from heaven to show that it was accepted. Abel pleaded with his brother to approach God in the divinely prescribed way, but his entreaties only made Cain the more determined to follow his own will. As the eldest, he felt above being admonished by his brother, and despised his counsel.Cain came before God with murmuring and infidelity in his heart in regard to the promised sacrifice and the necessity of the sacrificial offerings. His gift expressed no penitence for sin. He felt, as many now feel, that it would be an acknowledgment of weakness to follow the exact plan marked out by God, of trusting his salvation wholly to the atonement of the promised Saviour. He chose the course of self-dependence. He would come in his own merits. He would not bring the lamb, and mingle its blood with his offering, but would present his fruits, the products of his labor. He presented his offering as a favor done to God, through which he expected to secure the divine approval. Cain obeyed in building an altar, obeyed in bringing a sacrifice; but he rendered only a partial obedience. The essential part, the recognition of the need of a Redeemer, was left out.

So far as birth and religious instruction were concerned, these brothers were equal. Both were sinners, and both acknowledged the claims of God to reverence and worship. To outward appearance their religion was the same up to a certain point, but beyond this the difference between the two was great.

"By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain." Hebrews 11:4. Abel grasped the great principles of redemption. He saw himself a sinner, and he saw sin and its penalty, death, standing between his soul and communion with God. He brought the slain victim, the sacrificed life, thus acknowledging the claims of the law that had been transgressed. Through the shed blood he looked to the future sacrifice, Christ dying on the cross of Calvary; and trusting in the atonement that was there to be made, he had the witness that he was righteous, and his offering accepted.

Cain had the same opportunity of learning and accepting these truths as had Abel. He was not the victim of an arbitrary purpose. One brother was not elected to be accepted of God, and the other to be rejected. Abel chose faith and obedience; Cain, unbelief and rebellion. Here the whole matter rested.

Cain and Abel represent two classes that will exist in the world till the close of time. One class avail themselves of the appointed sacrifice for sin; the other venture to depend upon their own merits; theirs is a sacrifice without the virtue of divine mediation, and thus it is not able to bring man into favor with God. It is only through the merits of Jesus that our transgressions can be pardoned. Those who feel no need of the blood of Christ, who feel that without divine grace they can by their own works secure the approval of God, are making the same mistake as did Cain. If they do not accept the cleansing blood, they are under condemnation. There is no other provision made whereby they can be released from the thralldom of sin.

The class of worshipers who follow the example of Cain includes by far the greater portion of the world; for nearly every false religion has been based on the same principle--that man can depend upon his own efforts for salvation. It is claimed by some that the human race is in need, not of redemption, but of development--that it can refine, elevate, and regenerate itself. As Cain thought to secure the divine favor by an offering that lacked the blood of a sacrifice, so do these expect to exalt humanity to the divine standard, independent of the atonement. The history of Cain shows what must be the results. It shows what man will become apart from Christ. Humanity has no power to regenerate itself. It does not tend upward, toward the divine, but downward, toward the satanic. Christ is our only hope. "There is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." "Neither is there salvation in any other." Acts 4:12.

True faith, which relies wholly upon Christ, will be manifested by obedience to all the requirements of God. From Adam's day to the present time the great controversy has been concerning obedience to God's law. In all ages there have been those who claimed a right to the favor of God even while they were disregarding some of His commands. But the Scriptures declare that by works is "faith made perfect;" and that, without the works of obedience, faith "is dead." James 2:22, 17. He that professes to know God, "and keepeth not His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." 1 John 2:4.

When Cain saw that his offering was rejected, he was angry with the Lord and with Abel; he was angry that God did not accept man's substitute in place of the sacrifice divinely ordained, and angry with his brother for choosing to obey God instead of joining in rebellion against Him. Notwithstanding Cain's disregard of the divine command, God did not leave him to himself; but He condescended to reason with the man who had shown himself so unreasonable. And the Lord said unto Cain, "Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen?" Through an angel messenger the divine warning was conveyed: "If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? And if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door." The choice lay with Cain himself. If he would trust to the merits of the promised Saviour, and would obey God's requirements, he would enjoy His favor. But should he persist in unbelief and transgression, he would have no ground for complaint because he was rejected by the Lord.

But instead of acknowledging his sin, Cain continued to complain of the injustice of God and to cherish jealousy and hatred of Abel. He angrily reproached his brother, and attempted to draw him into controversy concerning God's dealings with them. In meekness, yet fearlessly and firmly, Abel defended the justice and goodness of God. He pointed out Cain's error, and tried to convince him that the wrong was in himself. He pointed to the compassion of God in sparing the life of their parents when He might have punished them with instant death, and urged that God loved them, or He would not have given His Son, innocent and holy, to suffer the penalty which they had incurred. All this caused Cain's anger to burn the hotter. Reason and conscience told him that Abel was in the right; but he was enraged that one who had been wont to heed his counsel should now presume to disagree with him, and that he could gain no sympathy in his rebellion. In the fury of his passion he slew his brother.

Cain hated and killed his brother, not for any wrong that Abel had done, but "because his own works were evil, and his brother's righteous." 1 John 3:12. So in all ages the wicked have hated those who were better than themselves. Abel's life of obedience and unswerving faith was to Cain a perpetual reproof. "Everyone that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved." John 3:20. The brighter the heavenly light that is reflected from the character of God's faithful servants, the more clearly the sins of the ungodly are revealed, and the more determined will be their efforts to destroy those who disturb their peace.

The murder of Abel was the first example of the enmity that God had declared would exist between the serpent and the seed of the woman--between Satan and his subjects and Christ and His followers. Through man's sin, Satan had gained control of the human race, but Christ would enable them to cast off his yoke. Whenever, through faith in the Lamb of God, a soul renounces the service of sin, Satan's wrath is kindled. The holy life of Abel testified against Satan's claim that it is impossible for man to keep God's law. When Cain, moved by the spirit of the wicked one, saw that he could not control Abel, he was so enraged that he destroyed his life. And wherever there are any who will stand in vindication of the righteousness of the law of God, the same spirit will be manifested against them. It is the spirit that through all the ages has set up the stake and kindled the burning pile for the disciples of Christ. But the cruelties heaped upon the follower of Jesus are instigated by Satan and his hosts because they cannot force him to submit to their control. It is the rage of a vanquished foe. Every martyr of Jesus has died a conqueror. Says the prophet, "They overcame him ["that old serpent, called the devil, and Satan"] by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death." Revelation 12:11, 9.

Cain the murderer was soon called to answer for his crime. "The Lord said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother's keeper?" Cain had gone so far in sin that he had lost a sense of the continual presence of God and of His greatness and omniscience. So he resorted to falsehood to conceal his guilt.

Again the Lord said to Cain, "What hast thou done? The voice of thy brother's blood crieth unto Me from the ground." God had given Cain an opportunity to confess his sin. He had had time to reflect. He knew the enormity of the deed he had done, and of the falsehood he had uttered to conceal it; but he was rebellious still, and sentence was no longer deferred. The divine voice that had been heard in entreaty and admonition pronounced the terrible words: "And now art thou cursed from the earth, which hath opened her mouth to receive thy brother's blood from thy hand. When thou tillest the ground, it shall not henceforth yield unto thee her strength; a fugitive and a vagabond shalt thou be in the earth."

Notwithstanding that Cain had by his crimes merited the sentence of death, a merciful Creator still spared his life, and granted him opportunity for repentance. But Cain lived only to harden his heart, to encourage rebellion against the divine authority, and to become the head of a line of bold, abandoned sinners. This one apostate, led on by Satan, became a tempter to others; and his example and influence exerted their demoralizing power, until the earth became so corrupt and filled with violence as to call for its destruction.

In sparing the life of the first murderer, God presented before the whole universe a lesson bearing upon the great controversy. The dark history of Cain and his descendants was an illustration of what would have been the result of permitting the sinner to live on forever, to carry out his rebellion against God. The forbearance of God only rendered the wicked more bold and defiant in their iniquity. Fifteen centuries after the sentence pronounced upon Cain, the universe witnessed the fruition of his influence and example, in the crime and pollution that flooded the earth. It was made manifest that the sentence of death pronounced upon the fallen race for the transgression of God's law was both just and merciful. The longer men lived in sin, the more abandoned they became. The divine sentence cutting short a career of unbridled iniquity, and freeing the world from the influence of those who had become hardened in rebellion, was a blessing rather than a curse.

Satan is constantly at work, with intense energy and under a thousand disguises, to misrepresent the character and government of God. With extensive, well-organized plans and marvelous power, he is working to hold the inhabitants of the world under his deceptions. God, the One infinite and all-wise, sees the end from the beginning, and in dealing with evil His plans were far-reaching and comprehensive. It was His purpose, not merely to put down the rebellion, but to demonstrate to all the universe the nature of the rebellion. God's plan was unfolding, showing both His justice and His mercy, and fully vindicating His wisdom and righteousness in His dealings with evil.

The holy inhabitants of other worlds were watching with the deepest interest the events taking place on the earth. In the condition of the world that existed before the Flood they saw illustrated the results of the administration which Lucifer had endeavored to establish in heaven, in rejecting the authority of Christ and casting aside the law of God. In those high-handed sinners of the antediluvian world they saw the subjects over whom Satan held sway. The thoughts of men's hearts were only evil continually. Genesis 6:5. Every emotion, every impulse and imagination, was at war with the divine principles of purity and peace and love. It was an example of the awful depravity resulting from Satan's policy to remove from God's creatures the restraint of His holy law.

By the facts unfolded in the progress of the great controversy, God will demonstrate the principles of His rules of government, which have been falsified by Satan and by all whom he has deceived. His justice will finally be acknowledged by the whole world, though the acknowledgment will be made too late to save the rebellious. God carries with Him the sympathy and approval of the whole universe as step by step His great plan advances to its complete fulfillment. He will carry it with Him in the final eradication of rebellion. It will be seen that all who have forsaken the divine precepts have placed themselves on the side of Satan, in warfare against Christ. When the prince of this world shall be judged, and all who have united with him shall share his fate, the whole universe as witnesses to the sentence will declare, "Just and true are Thy ways, Thou King of saints." Revelation 15:3.

- Patriarchs and Prophets, Ellen G. White

Sunday, April 24, 2011

B.....A.....T.....T.....L.....E.....BATTLE!


Two girls already on base ready to run at the crack of the bat. The next batter puts on her batting helmet, steps up to the plate, taps home base once with her metal bat then gets into her hitting stance, clutching the bat in her hands as she eyes the pitcher. Her teammates in the dugout start a chant, B.....A.....T.....T.....L.....E.....BATTLE! Battle...battle...battle...BATTLE! B.....A.....T.....T.....L.....E.....BATTLE! Battle...battle...battle...BATTLE! It's a cheer I heard last Friday at a girls JV softball game. My friends Mallorie and Mandie coach at Northview HS. Their girls use this cheer whenever their teammate goes up to bat against the pitcher. The cheer keeps echoing through my mind. Some of you may have heard it before. It's used more often when a batter keeps fouling the ball in an effort not to strike out. In softball, pitchers will mainly throw fast balls, risers, changeups and curve balls in an attempt to get the batter out. Batters will battle in the box one ball after another against the pitchers pitches until she slugs a hit past the infield to get on base.

It's a picture of the great controversy, the battle between good and evil. I'm visualizing the whole scenario of a batter going up against a pitcher who throws all sorts of fast balls, curve balls, etc. The devil throws at us all sorts of temptations, some fast, some slow. At times a curve ball that comes out of nowhere. He's doing everything he can to strike us out. The pressures on, we step up to the plate, clutching the bat in our hands, ready to battle. The devil is the pitcher. The ball is the temptation. The batter represents us. The helmet is salvation. And the bat represents the Bible. B.....A.....T.....T.....L.....E.....BATTLE! Battle...battle...battle...BATTLE! What are you going to do? How will you handle stepping up to the plate?

The New Testament writers give us some battling tips:

Paul says, "Take your stand against the devil's schemes, to take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God."

James says, "Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you. Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says."

John says, "I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God lives in you, and you have overcome the evil one."

It seems to me that the Word of God is key to battling against the devil. Without it, you're hopeless. It would be like stepping up to the plate without a bat. There are of course times when we fall short and the devil strikes us out. We feel worthless. But don't lose hope. For Paul writes in Romans "You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. If God is for us, who can be against us? We are more than conquerors through him who loved us."

When all else fails, remember what God has done! He's given us His son at just the right time. And he battled for us! He is our Coach, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. So step up to the plate with your bat, a conqueror, and B.....A.....T.....T.....L.....E.....BATTLE!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Goodbye Spring Break

Back to work tomorrow. Spring break was great and I'm clearly not ready to get up and teach tomorrow after such a relaxed break. I really didn't do much or go anywhere out of state. Other then a few days of girls softball practice, two days of class and sleeping in til 11am on some days, I spent most of my time preparing for the sermon I delivered yesterday at my church. The Indo one that is.

For those of you that don't know yet, I was asked to volunteer at White Memorial Church with the young adults. An opportunity I didn't want to turn down. So now I'm working with young people in two churches on the weekend, which takes a lot of my energy. Sunday is my only real day off. At least with the Indo church, I have plenty of leaders to work with that make my my job as a coordinator much easier when I can't be there. At the White, we're struggling because though it's a bigger church, there are far less young people there than Azusa. So it's become my job there to grow the young adult group, beginning in Sabbath School. We're doing okay and slowly growing.

Concordia University accepted me into their graduate school and now I'm working on my Masters in Education. Sweeeeet! I take classes every Tuesday from 4:30-8:30pm. Yeah 4 straight hours! And I'm the only guy with 11 other women in the class. I feel like I don't belong, especially since most of them are older with much teaching experience. But hey I have much to learn and maybe it's a good thing that I'm getting this done early. And surprisingly, I spent a lot of time in different libraries over the break. Something I hardly did when I was younger. Now I love it!

But yeah, today was great day. We played volleyball at Heritage Park, East vs. West. At first I didn't think that many people were going to show up because it looked like it was going to rain. But we had a good turnout! West came prepared, as always. The East barely had enough players. We played 6 on 6 best of out of 5 games and man good times. Whenever Jerry Sagala is on your team, you can't help but just laugh. The guy is hilarious! We ended up losing to the East team in 4 games. Our record falls to 3-1 while theirs improves to 1-3. West has won softball, football and soccer while East grabbed their first win today in volleyball.

Well that's all I feel like posting for today. There is one other thing on my mind but that's personal and there's only a few people I can talk to about that. Good luck guessing what that is. Have a great week everyone!




Sunday, January 9, 2011

New Year Update

Just a little over a week into the New Year and it's already been more than exciting! I'm keeping up with my re:solutions. Well, I accidentally broke one already. I ate at the Hat on Sunday with a few friends after volleyball, completely forgetting that I wanted to stop eating fast food. Jay Jay reminded me the other night and I felt like a complete failure. But it's not going to keep me from trying to keep the re:solution from here on out. I guess you can say I made up for it this weekend by over-doing another re:solution. Normally I would only go to the gym 6 times a week but today I played in an all-day volleyball tournament that we loss in the quarter finals. I then played later in the basketball league I'm in with LA Knights, a game we could have won! I had a chance to win it at the buzzer with an alley-oop pass given to me from a teammate but I missed the layup. Two hard losses in one day to start the new year. But that's alright. It's a humbling experience. Can't win them all and at least I'm getting the exercise in.

In spite of that, it was a great overall weekend! On Friday night the youth got together at Jessica's house to watch "Thin Ice," a movie about Vince, a non-Christian young adult who goes on a ski trip with a church group, which includes six strong sets of opinions about God that will soon collide. We had a great follow-up discussion about the movie and learned some lessons such as
1. obedience and love must always go hand-in-hand (one without the other can be sinful)
2. being a Christian doesn't mean you live a perfect life (God is with us through our struggles and can help us)
3. many Christian churches are responsible for leading people even further away from God (I can write a completely separate blog about this issue. I'd highly recommend this book for reading, Unchristian:What a new generation thinks about Christians and why it matters by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons.)

So yeah that was Friday. On Saturday night a small group of us went to visit an elderly man in his home who was dying of cancer. We sang a couple songs for him then prayed after. It so happened that he was a doctor and that made me think, for so many years he's been the one helping hundreds, maybe thousands of people. Now he's the one that needs help. Just shows how a disease can happen to anyone. We shouldn't take life for granted but live each day to the fullest because we never know when our time's up. After that I met up with Jay, Adrian and Jenn to watch Tron. I had no idea what to expect other than what I've heard from others in that the visual effects were amazing! And yes, they were more than right! We watched it in 3D which made the experience even more incredible. So not to spoil it for anyone that hasn't seen it, I'm not going to talk about the story line of the movie and what happens.

And Sunday, well yeah I already blogged about that earlier. I should also mention that I made some awesome new friends from 24 hour fitness where me and Jay play volleyball - Mandie, Mallorie & Brittany. They're so fun to be around! More stories about them in upcoming blogs.

Monday, January 3, 2011

Re:solutions

Instead of resolution, I like re:solution. Dictionary.com defines the word solution as this: the act or process of solving a problem. Now I like that better than resolution and I'm left with the question, what problems in my life will I be trying to solve this year? I currently recognize several problems that I've failed to solve in my life.

The first is this, not getting to the gym on a consistent basis. In previous years I've made resolutions to go to the gym to stay conditioned, get bigger and stronger. I've always started off good then slowly fade away and get lazy. This is a problem I want to fix and so for the past month leading up into this new year, I've already been hitting the gym at least 3 times a week. For this year, the solution is to play a sport on Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday and lift weights on Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

The second is that I eat way too much junk food, mainly chips, soda and fast food. For this year, I've eliminated those three from my diet. Yes that means no more In-N-Out, Taco Bell, Burger King, etc. The only exceptions are Subway, Quiznos, Pepe's and Albertos and sit down restaurants. Cutting back on the fast food not only helps me stay healthier, but spend less and save money.

And lastly, I haven't had a consistent daily reading devotional relationship with God. In the past I've always been more motivated to study or have devotional time with God only when I'm preparing to teach at my church. That isn't good because the main motivation to spend time and learn from God shouldn't be to teach others. The main reason anyone should want to spend time in daily devotion with God is because they love God! And I want that to be the solution to my current problem.

So, re:solutions. I've recognized the problems in my life that I need to solve. What are the problems in your life? What solutions will you come up with to fix those problems? Remember, don't be discouraged if you fail, even if you fail miserably. There is no perfect solution. Jesus is the only perfect solution to every problem and loving him is the highest goal anyone can achieve. Consider this passage of the Bible:

"Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 3:13-14

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Goodbye 2010


10...9...8...7...6...5...4...3...2...1. Happy New Year! 2010 has finally gone, 2011 has come. Ah it feels great to enter into a new year! To start off fresh, put past mistakes behind, and live hopefully, a better and more rejuvenating life! And so to recap last year, here are some of the memorable events that come to mind

January
WMC Pathfinders Camping, Death Valle
Disneyland
Rowland Heights Church League Champs, LA Knights

February
Snowboarding, Mt. High
Disneyland

March
SGVCSL Champs, SGA Jr. High Boys Basketball
Senior Class Trip, Seattle
Disneyland

April
UCLA Cup Champs, LA Knights
WMC Pathfinders Camping, Carpinteria
Disneyland

May
Disneyland

June
Walla Walla University Days
Dodgers vs. Yankees

July
AVP
LLISDA Tournament Champs, Hoopaholics
Backpacking, Spruce Grove
Beach, Surfing, Bonfires, S'mores!

August
Vacation Bible School
Turning 25!
Bachelor Party
K1 Racing, ESPN Zone, Rock Climbing
Leo & Roeum's Wedding

September
IASDA Softball Champs, West 31-30

October
Church Camping, Silverwood Lake
Coaching SGA Jr. High Girl's Volleyball
Six Flags

November
IASDA Football Champs, West 33-32
CIF Southern Section Finalists, SGA Girl's Volleyball
CIF State Championships, SGA Girl's Volleyball

December
Journey to Bethlehem
Snowboarding, Mt. high
Christmas
Snowboarding, Snow Valley
New Year's Eve at Leo & Roeum's

So those were the highlights of 2010, the ones that I remember at least. Looking forward to an awesome 2011 year!

Thursday, December 30, 2010

I'm Back

If you check my last blog, you'll see that it's dated January 4, 2010. Yeah it's been nearly a year since I last blogged anything. It's not that I didn't have the time because there were plenty of times I could have blogged. I just didn't feel like sharing online and then forgot I even created this. Facebook and Twitter has made microblogging my thoughts and pieces of my life a lot easier. But I've decided to get back into blogging on here and will do my best to get to it weekly.

And so just to summarize in case you're wondering, this year, 2010, ranks up there as one of the most emotional ones for me. I lost my job as the young adult pastor of a church at the beginning of the year. That was painful to go through because I connected so well with the young adults and church members. Then I went through a friendship with a girl that I thought was going somewhere but never did. After that I spent the summer not knowing if I was going to be working at San Gabriel Academy anymore. Turned out there was a change in administration and God blessed me with another year as the Elementary & Jr. High P.E. teacher. My buddy Leo then got married and being his best man, everyone at the wedding tells me I'm next. You can't help but have some feelings of emptiness, especially when I'm not even seeing anyone at the moment. And finally, I was sick for more than 50 days starting in October leading all the way into December. It really was a test of faith because I couldn't talk without coughing and I had a hard time getting a good night's sleep. I still went to work.

And here I am now, back blogging. That's all for now. I'll be highlighting some of the memorable events of 2010 in my next blog. Stay tuned...

Monday, January 4, 2010

2009 Memories

I can't believe how fast 2009 went by! It did get off to a sad start when my mom & I spent a few weeks in Indonesia mourning the loss of Oma. And it sure had it's up and downs, especially the months between April and September, from church issues to relationships and jobs. But in spite of everything that happened, God was faithful all the way through. He closed and open many doors and led me to where I am today. Hope you enjoy the list I compiled to kick off this new year!

January
Traveling to Indonesia with my mom to bury my grandma
Offered new job as Elementary P.E. Teacher, SGA
Speaking at TLT Sabbath, White Memorial

February
Pathfinder Convocation, White Memorial
Now Therefore Go IASDA Youth & Young Adult Week of Prayer, Azusa

March
Indonesian Basketball Tournament, UCLA
Fast & Furious with Marcus, LA Chinese Theatre
Two-week Spring Break
1st Annual Youth vs. Young Adult softball game
IASDA Youth Uncensored Vespers

April
Traveling up to Central California with Finish the Work
SGA Alumni Sabbath at beating varsity in basketball
Pathfinder Fair, Don Bosco Tech HS
Claim LA w/ Faith for Today Speaker-Director Mike Tucker, with PCC

May
1st Annual Youth Bikeathon from Azusa Canyon to Seal Beach
Revelation Speaks Peace w/ It is Written Speaker-Director Shawn Boonstra, USC
Going up to visit Walla Walla University with Elissa, Katie and Amy
Balloon Stampede, Walla Walla
Speaking at IASDA Adventurer's Camp, Galster Park

June
Last day of work at A+ Learning Center, Arcadia
Flying up to Walla Walla for graduation
Vegas with Leo & Roeum
Transformers 2: Revenge of the Fallen
Teaching summer school Jr. high class

July
My re-baptism!
Backpacking, fireworks and sleeping at the top of Mt. Wilson
Bonfires, Huntington Beach
Orange County Fair w/ summer school kids
Loma Loma Indonesian Basketball Tournament

August
Six Flags Magic Mountain
Courage to Stand International Pathfinder Camporee, Oshkosh, Wisconsin
1st place fancy drill
New 2009-2010 school year beginning at SGA
Time Traveler's Wife

September
SWYC, Pine Springs Ranch
Helping coach SGA women's varsity volleyball team
Loma Linda Filipino Summer League
Field trip to California Science Center
Dodgers First Round Playoff game

October
Big Bear with mom & dad
Teen Leadership Training, CCF
Moving to Alhambra SDA & making new friends
UCLA vs. Oregon State Women's Volleyball Game, Pauley Pavillion

November
1st place in volleyball, Indonesian Convocation
Grandparent's 60th Anniversary, Whittier
2012
Thanksgiving at auntie Diane's house, Moreno Valley

December
Offered new job as young adult pastor for White Memorial Church
Hearing about Leo & Roeum's proposal
Being an angel for Auntie Esther's Praise Connection
Journey to Bethlehem, SGA
AVATAR
Decorating my new office!
Christmas at auntie Stephanie's house, Anaheim Hills
Playing wii with my cousins and nephews
Christmas party at Auntie Hazel's
Celebrating my mom's birthday at Disneyland
Buying a Disneyland Annual Pass

Those were the highlights of 2009. I know I probably forgot to mention a lot of other things but those were the ones that stood out. I'll be sharing my Top 10 Resolutions for this new year 2010 in my next blog.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

The Never-Ending Complaining Student

I have a student that is really starting to test my patience. And I consider myself to be a pretty patient person so if I'm coming to the point of becoming impatient, you must really be doing something that really irritates me.

Anyway, there's this boy in one of my classes that complains a lot about everything! He gets so down on himself no matter how encouraging I try to be. If we're playing capture the flag and he isn't the one to grab the flag and bring it back, or if he gets tagged while running, he'll sit on the ground with his legs crossed, head buried in his face and won't participate. If we're playing football and the quarterback doesn't throw him the ball, he'll throw a tantrum and start crying. If we're playing volleyball and the ball isn't hit towards him because he wants to pass it so badly, he'll stomp on the floor with his fists clenched and start yelling.

And so today we were playing basketball for PE. Boys playing each other on one court and girls on the other to. I separated the teams as even as possible so it would be fair and hopefully, none of the kids would complain. Just two minutes into playing, and already trouble! This boy was dribbling the basketball, as happy as can be, with such a huge smile on his face, when one of the other kids came from behind and stole the ball away from him. Smile gone! I've never seen a mood swing as fast as this boy's, not even in some girls I know that can get pretty crazy. This boy went off! He first roared out a loud frustrating sound towards the ceiling, arms tight while clenching his fists towards the ground. Then he stomped every step over in my direction, grinding his teeth with his hands on his head (looked like he was going to pull his hair out). I said with a calm voice,
"______ (name confidential*), you need to keep playing, that's part of the game."

"HOW CAN I KEEP PLAYING MR. OSTOS IF THEY KEEP TAKING THE BALL FROM ME?!!?"

"It was just once and you can protect the ball better and pass to your teammates ______."

"BUT I'M NOT THAT GOOD! THEY HAVE TO LET ME DRIBBLE! IT'S THE RULES!"

"I want you to keep trying ______. Don't give up just because someone took it from you one time."

By this point whenever kids come to me complaining or whining to me about something, they start making up excuses, thinking they can argue with me. And this boy straight up lied to me!
"BUT ________ AND _________ WERE HITTING MY ARMS AND FOULING ME! THEY'RE CHEATING! THEY'RE NOT PLAYING FAIR! I DON'T WANNA PLAY THIS GAME ANYMORE. I DON'T WANNA PLAY THIS GAME EVER AGAIN!"

And he starts walking away from me and I raise my voice for him to come back and go play the game. He complies but doesn't want the ball anymore. He just kinda slowly walks back and forth on the court with his head down, hands in his pocket while the other kids run back and forth past him. This is what I go through on a daily basis and I love my job!

Monday, December 7, 2009

Journey To Bethlehem

I told myself I would only attend Friday night. Nope! Something drew me to the Journey to Bethlehem this year that I attended every night, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It could have been that I knew a ton more elementary students that adorably would shout out "Hey look it's Coach O!" whenever they saw me, or the fact I knew some of the performers from Alhambra church that I wanted to support, or maybe the pride I felt in that my school, the place I now work at puts on this huge and wonderful event at this time of year when it's cold outside that no other academy in the area does. I think that says a lot about SGA!

Journey to Bethlehem is a once a year outdoor event at San Gabriel Academy that depicts the Christmas story of the trip Joseph and Mary traveled to Bethlehem. As you enter the campus, you are assigned to a tribe with a leader (tour guide) that will take you on a trip to different sights and sounds of this journey to Bethlehem. The field is decorated with many props to portray an appealing ancient world, a christmas lighted path with trees and plants, a water fountain, armadillos and wildcats, lions and bears, and of course, the various scenes of this journey. You will travel to scenes like Isaiah the prophet writing on a scroll (who I heard a lot of kids referring to as Santa Clause), Shepherds and little lambs, King Herod in the palace with the wise men, to finally the nativity scene of Joseph and Mary holding baby Jesus. There is also a petting zoo filled with real animals such as lambs, a pig, a turkey and even lama. Bethlehem is a favorite spot for many, the lighted marketplace filled with soldiers and merchants that sell water, hot chocolate, cookies and other deserts if you have the blue and pink coins that were given to you at the beginning of the tour. The end of the journey rests at an outdoor amphitheater set up with chairs, hay stacks (the kind you sit on, not eat), and the stage where different artists and musicians perform to conclude the evening.

The faculty and students of San Gabriel Academy put on this big event for the community every first weekend in December. If you couldn't make it, you really missed out! Next year I hope to get more involved. I might consider being a tour guide, since some weren't so enthusiastic that drove me to lead the group instead. Or maybe a merchant behind one of the counters serving food so when no one's looking, I can eat some for myself! Haha I'm kidding! Well, I think Journey to Bethlehem turned out to be a success in spite of a few things but hey, there really is no place like SGA! And I'm proud to be part of this campus.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

First Day: New Pastor at a New Church

Yesterday was my first day as the new pastor at the White Memorial Church in East Los Angeles. My alarm woke me up around 7:30AM when it was supposed to wake me up at 5:30. Don't know how that happened. They have an early service at 8:00AM that I wanted to arrive there early to. That didn't happen. So I got ready as fast as I could, showered, put on a suit, grabbed my Bible and drove straight to L.A. I live in West Covina so the drive without traffic is about 30 minutes.

I got to church around 8:30AM. I really didn't know what to expect of my first day. I parked my car and walked into the main sanctuary, grabbed a bulletin and sat in the back. Everyone that was there, probably about 20 or so of them, sat towards the front. Pastor Ben Del Pozo, the senior pastor of the church, was sitting in one of the chairs on the stage. I wonder if he noticed me come in late through the back. Turns out early service was starting a little late because the girl who had to lead song service came late to. Ah, worked out!

Halfway through the service, a lady named Leah recognized me and insisted I go sit in the front row. So she walked with me down one of the aisles while the others there were were just finishing praying with a partner. I felt eyes staring at me as I sat. After about a few minutes into the sermon, Pastor Ben invited me up to introduce me to everyone. I was nervous, even with just a few there so I tried to keep a warm and friendly smile. I didn't feel at all that they were critiquing me or wondering whether I was qualified or not to be their new young adult pastor. I felt welcomed. I sat back down and continued worshipping with them.

In between the early service and main service there's Sabbath school. Pastor Ben had asked me Friday night to teach the Earliteen (ages 9-13) class but most of them had to practice singing for something they were doing in the main service that day. So no class. What did I do? I went alone around to other Sabbath school classes, from cradle roll (ages 0-4) all the way up to Young Adults (ages 21-35+) and introduced myself as the new pastor. I'm glad that's what happened. Teaching a class my first day just didn't feel right since nobody really knew me yet so introducing myself to all the SS classes suited better.

I spent the remaining 10 or so minutes in the Young Adult class listening to Amy teach, a young lady in her late 20's that's been teaching the class I guess for a while now from what I heard. Some are receptive to the way she teaches, but not everyone is. I got to talk with her a little bit after class and in the afternoon. She's so excited that they finally hired a young adult pastor and that her prayers were answered. Lovely lady with a heart on fire for God. The Young Adults at the White are going to be my area of ministry. Pastor Ben and the leaders of the church hired me for the sole purpose of growing the Young Adult community. I'll elaborate more on how I plan to do that in a future blog. Peter was another young adult that I talked with a bit. He's grown up in that church and I've known him for a couple years now. I'm so excited that he's been a faithful member of the White. His support and contribution is going to be an asset to the growth of this group.

As were talking, Leah interrupted and had to pull me over to get into the main service because they were about ready to introduce me to the rest of the congregation. This was intimidating! Obviously, there were a lot more people in this service than the earlier one. But God was good. God was faithful. And I just kept praying in my heart that He be the center of everything, that He be the one praised and not me. Pastor Ben and the head elder invited me up to the stage a second time and just as I was leaving my seat, Leah told me to bring my Bible so I did. I carried it up in my hand, stood tall next to the podium and faced the entire congregation with a warm smile. Art Medina, the head elder, introduced me and invited me to share a few words. I basically said that I was excited to be part of this new church family, that I felt honored to be here, and that all ages are welcome to support and help grow with me this Young Adult community. It was a very heart warming welcome. And for the rest of the day, I just went around getting to know people and introducing myself from table to table at potluck, and singing with a group in the hospital to patients, to joining the close of sabbath vespers at sunset. Pastor Ben encouraged that for this first day I take it easy and just make my presence felt in the different areas of ministry at the church. And that's exactly what I did as I got to know some people as you'll continue reading:

I remember Tirsa. She's 23 and went to high school with me her freshman year which was in 1999. We weren't friends then but she remembers me. She has 3 siblings. A brother, Isaac whose in the Philippines, a sister whose married and another brother.

I remember talking with a guy named Matt who was in a wheelchair. His membership is at the La Sierra University church but he likes coming to the White. He currently majors in Music Industry at USC.

I remember listening to Juan share his life story, an older man in his early 60s who wears a black hat, long black coat and mirrored glasses. He grew up in L.A., later in Arizona on an Indian reservation, and is back in East L.A. now.

I remember Anna, about my age, a new believer who wants to be baptized. She has a little brother.

I remember Carmen, a quiet third grade girl with earrings and such an innocent smile. She has an older brother.

I met a few Indonesians, spoke a bit of the language with them but already forgot their names!

I remember Philip, a special guy that likes to talk about I don't even know to you. For nearly 20 minutes straight he just kept talking to me while I just stood and nodded my head. And then finally when he was finished talking, he'd walk away where I couldn't see him anymore, then come back and be like "Oh one more thing Chris." He did that 4 times.

I remember Ramon the Rescuer, Denise's dad. He's the tall man, with muscles that I turn to if I need to be rescued from Philip. My own personal security guard. Haha! Philip is terrified of him.

I remember all the little kids that are my students at San Gabriel Academy, where I also teaching Physical Education during the week. All they would say whenever they see me aroudn church was, "Hey look it's Coach O!" Ah so adorable.

I remember Maria and Rebecca, two older looking and a bit chubby mexican women in their 40s, who were part of the group that sang at the hospital. Rebecca is working on her spanish and promises she'll help me learn to.

I remember Ethan and Vince, teenage boys, one goes to SGA, the other I don't know yet.

I remember Ashley and Adriana. Ashley is one my students at SGA. Adriana has a few sisters and a brother I think. Their mom is Myrna, whose married to Danny.

And finally I remember the Diaz family. They seem to be the most supportive so far. Three of the girls are my students at SGA, Victoria, Alexis and Jackie. Wonderful family. They might be transferring their membership from Temple City to the White. ;)

Mannnn....I didn't expect this blog to turn out this long. For anyone reading this, or any new pastors out there reading, I hope you find this helpful. This was my experience on my first day as the new pastor of a new church, the White Memorial Church in East L.A.